Hostess Hints: Fleur-de-lis Table Linen Fold

The Fleur-de-lis linen napkin fold is an elegant and easy napkin folding technique that works well with formal and casual table setting.  It’s simple to do.  Don’t believe us?  Check out the step-by-step instructions found on makemytable.com.

Fleur Step 1

Begin by folding the edges of the linen napkin diagonally, so that the result is a triangle.

Fleur Step 2

Fold the right edge to the top.

Fleur Step 3

Same with the left edge, resulting in a square.

Fleur Step 4

Now fold about two thirds of the lower edge upwards.

Fleur Step 5

Fold the top edge back.

Fleur Step 6

Turn the napkin over and insert the edge into the other end.

Fleur Step 7

Open the table linen napkin forming an “O” at the bottom and stand it up. Pull each edge of the table napkin to form the petals on both sides.

Voilà! You have just folded your Fleur-de-lis fine table linen napkin!

Your Summer Packing List

Are you preparing for a honeymoon at or by the sea this summer? Well, with more and more airlines imposing increased check baggage fees, it may be worthwhile to pack light with our travel-light packing list:

Dressing For Day or Night

  • Two (2) Sundresses
  • Seven (7) Tops
  • Two (2) Pair of Shorts
  • One (1) Pair of Light Pants
  • One (1) Evening Cover-Up

Unmentionables

  • Seven (7) Pair of Undies
  • Three (3) Bras

Accessories

  • One (1) Beach Bag
  • One (1) Beach Hat
  • One (1) Sarong
  • One (1) Jacket
  • One (1) Skirt

Footwear

  • One (1) Pair of Dressy Sandals
  • One (1) Pair of Flip-Flops

If you plan on exercising during your vacation, we also recommend adding a set of workout clothes and a pair of running shoes to this list.  Most importantly, don’t forget to pack your camera to document the memories.  Bon voyage!

Vineyard Vows

Vineyards and wineries are the perfect wedding venue alternative for the couple who has a love of natural beauty and, of course, wine.  The vibrant greenery of a vineyard in spring needs few enhancements, making the minimalist approach not only aesthetically breathtaking but also budget friendly.  Wineries often host wine tastings, which is the perfect way to get the girls together to check out potential wedding venues, explore new wine pairings, and enjoy each other’s company.  You can look up wineries in your area by searching the national database of US wineries.

If you’re securing a vineyard for your wedding day, you may want to make sure you know the answers to the following questions before signing on the dotted line:

  • How many guests can be accommodated?
  • What is the basic fee and what does it include?
  • Is there a price break for days other than weekends?
  • How many hours may we have use of the venue?
  • Is there a weather contingency plan for outdoor venues?
  • Does the winery have in-house catering?
  • Can beverages other than the winery’s be served?
  • Are there any music restrictions?
  • Is there an area for dancing?
  • May all areas of the property be used for photography?
  • How about restroom facilities?
  • Is parking sufficient and convenient?
  • What about minors attending?

Your Destination Guide: Top 25 Destinations in the United States

If you’ve been looking for a destination for your wedding or honeymoon, you may want to consider one of Trip Advisor’s top 25. Regardless of whether or not your wedding backdrop calls for calming seas in an intimate beach ceremony or the natural beauty of towering sequoia trees in a whimsical garden wedding, you’ll find their list offers something for everyone.

  1. New York City, New York
  2. Honolulu, Hawaii
  3. San Francisco, California
  4. Las Vegas, Nevada
  5. Lahaina, Hawaii
  6. Kailua-Kona, Hawaii
  7. New Orleans, Louisiana
  8. San Diego, California
  9. Sedona, Arizona
  10. Seattle, Washington
  11. Anchorage, Alaska
  12. Chicago, Illinois
  13. Boston, Massachusetts
  14. Estes Park, Colorado
  15. Washington DC, District of Columbia
  16. Poipu, Hawaii
  17. Orlando, Florida
  18. Big Sur, California
  19. Bar Harbor, Maine
  20. Carmel, California
  21. Destin, Florida
  22. Savannah, Georgia
  23. Gatlinburg, Tennessee
  24. Miami Beach, Florida
  25. Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
For highlights on each of these locations, including hotel specials and the most current airfare, visit Trip Advisor.  And don’t forget that SocialBFly can assist with all of your destination wedding and honeymoon planning needs.  Bon voyage!

Trend Alert: Trashing the Dress

Photo Credit: John Michael Cooper

I love all concepts of over-the-top creativity and artistic expression that fuel fresh new trends, including one that is gaining in popularity – trashing the dress. The concept emerged in 2008 and is looked upon as a form of rebellion against traditional wedding rules, especially those centered on gown preservation.  Essentially, brides are putting their wedding dresses back on for a high-fashion style of wedding photography featuring the dirtied, torn, burned, soggy remains of a once-pristine white dress and according to a recent article posted in the  Philadelphia Inquirer entitled Cherish the dress? Not them, trashing the dress is a trend that is currently practiced by 11% of all couples following their I do’s.   Pure fashion mutilation?  Maybe.  Admittedly, the thought of destroying a wedding dress in the name of art almost seems blasphemous but the article suggests that a post-wedding trash the dress photo shoot is “…an opportunity to preserve the dress as artwork to be hung on the wall as opposed to preserved in a box…” while “…  amplifying the gown’s in-the-moment beauty.”  After seeing some of the pictures, I may have to argue that they are right!

What do you think of Trash the Dress Photo Shoots?  Will you be doing one after your wedding?

Celebrate Earth Day 2011! 7 Ways to Protect the Earth on Your Wedding Day

I bet you didn’t know that the dream wedding you’ve been planning is leaving behind a carbon footprint the size of big foot but it doesn’t have to.  Incorporating any of the following green elements into your wedding will get your emissions down and have you on the road to an environmentally friendly love in no time.

Register with a cause.  Registry sites such as IDOfoundation.org, WeddingChannel.com, and JustGive.org allow you to create registries  with partner stores such as Target and Bed Bath and Beyond and up to 10% of every purchase is donated to a charity of your choice.

Reevaluate your guest list.  Ask yourself if you REALLY need 250 guests in attendance and as you answer keep in mind that more guests means more food, more expenses, and more waste.  And if you’re not sure about the carbon footprint your guest list is leaving behind, CarbonFund.org has a neat little calculator that will help put it all into very clear perspective.

Source Locally.  Some, and even I, may argue that buying locally has it rewards; among them the very rare opportunity to buy additive free fruits, vegetables, meats and flowers that not only create jobs in the community but are actually tastier and healthier for us.  Another big benefit is the cost savings and what wedding budget doesn’t love to hear that?  Encourage your caterer or florist to use materials that are only grown locally or if you’re a DIY bride, sites like Local Harvest and the Agricultural Marketing Service’s Directory of US Farmers Markets will help point you in the direction of the best places to go.

Rent and Recycle.  The wedding dress is probably THE most important element of the wedding day and once the day is done, most never see the light of day again. It’s almost comparable to a tragic love story, isn’t it? Consider a happily ever after for your dress that includes allowing another bride-to-be to rent it for her big day. That’s right…sites like Recycled Bride, Once Wed, Bravo Bride and Wore it Once are online marketplaces for brides who graciously contribute their dresses so other brides can rent or buy them at discounted prices. You may also find bridesmaids dresses, groomsmen suites, and even wedding rings posted on occasion.

Toast with Organic Champagne.  Unfortunately, you won’t save too much by choosing Organic Champagne for your toast but the less expensive alternative, which also comes in organic variety, is Sparkling Wine. Consider these sparkling options for your next champagne toast.

  • NV Albert Mann Crémant d’Alsace (Organic) $18.99
  • Ermite Medici Reggiano “Solo” (Biodynamic) $11.99

Exchange conflict free wedding vows.  Truth be told, there are still tons of “blood diamonds”  crossing American borders everyday.  And while they may be just as beautiful as non-conflict diamonds, the concept of wearing one seems pretty oxymoronic considering that are supposed to be seen as statements of love and blood diamonds, are often born of and perpetuate war.  Make sure you are saying your “I Do’s” with conflict free diamonds by:

  • Buying a diamond that hasn’t crossed national borders during processing.
  • Buying a diamond with a laser-engraved serial number.
  • Buying a diamond processed under ethical labor conditions.
  • Buying a diamond certified by its regional government.

Gift Earth Friendly Favors.  Environmentally friendly wedding favors are the gift that keeps on giving.  And thanks to creative developments, the options range from Celebratory Wedding Poppers to Plantable Favor Boxes.  You may also want to consider these Etsy finds:

Here are some facts about Weddings, courtesy of TreeHugger:

  • 2.3 million: Number of couples that get married in the US each year. That breaks down to more than 6,300 weddings a day.
  • $20,000: The average budget of a wedding in the U.S. (this number increases to £16,000 ($31,222) in the U.K. and decreases to €12,000 ($15,782) in France.)
  • 14.5 tonnes: The amount of CO2 created by the average wedding in the U.K.
  • 80 percent: The percentage of gold mined each year that goes into jewelry, out of 2500 tons.
  • 50 years: Length of time the current amount of already-mined gold could satisfy demand; much of it currently sits in bank vaults and in old, unused jewelry.

{Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/656003 and Treehugger.com}

Wedding Blogs Decoded

Sooo quick funny story…my mother was recently reading through one of my BRIDES magazines and though I’m not sure of the article that prompted her next response, I was left laughing with her for the rest of that day.  The conversation went a little something like this…

Mom: (reading magazine – whispers to herself): what in the world is a MOG?

sidebar:  it’s important to note that MAHG is the word that she said…NOT recite the letters M-O-G.  Anyway….moving on…

Me: (as though I thought she were talking to me): hunh, mom?  What is a WHAT?

Mom: I’m reading this darn magazine and they are talking about dresses for a MAHG.  I think this is a typo.

Me: How did they spell it?

Mom: M-O-G!

I could tell from how emphatically she stated it was a typo and how she spelled it that she was convinced that she was correct and that everyone else was wrong so I asked for the magazine and was presented with some great afternoon laughter (maybe you just had to be there…lol).

By now, you’ve guessed that M-O-G was an acronym for Mother of the Groom but I quickly realized that, there is a bit of alphabet soup that can be a tad confusing for those of us who are either far removed from the world of weddings or just not interested at all.  So if you’ve found yourself a little lost reading wedding blogs and magazines lately, here’s a quick review of some of the most common bridal acronyms to help you along the way  (by the way…Yes, I did correct her and give her this same tutorial. Lol.  She’s so funny):

  • AI: All Inclusive
  • B & G: Bride and Groom
  • BF: Context clues will help determine whether you should translate as Boyfriend or Best Friend
  • BM: Context clues will help determine whether you’re talking about the Best Man or the Bridesmaid
  • CM: Catering Manager
  • CP: Centerpiece
  • DH: Dear Husband
  • DIY: Do-It-Yourself
  • DOC: Day of Coordinator
  • DW: Destination wedding
  • E-Pics: Engagement Pictures
  • ER: Engagement ring
  • FBIL: Future brother-in-law (Brother-in-law would just be BIL)
  • FFIL: Future father-in-law (Father-in-law would be FIL)
  • FG: Flower girl
  • FH: Future husband
  • FI: Fiancé
  • FMIL: Future mother-in-law (Mother-in-law would be MIL)
  • FOB: Father of the bride
  • FOG: Father of the groom
  • FSIL: Future sister-in-law (Sister-in-law would be SIL)
  • GM: Groomsmen
  • GP: Grandparent
  • HM: Honeymoon
  • JP: Justice of the Peace
  • MOB: Mother of the bride
  • MOG: Mother of the groom
  • MOH: Maid or Matron of honor
  • NWR: Not Wedding Related
  • OOTG: Out-of-town guests
  • RB: Ring bearer
  • RD: Rehearsal Dinner
  • SO: Significant Other
  • STD: Save the Dates
  • TBP: The Bridal Party
  • WD: Wedding Date
  • WP: Wedding Planner
  • WR: Wedding Related

I hope this helps!  If you’ve heard of any new acronyms, don’t be shy…leave a comment below! Happy Reading!

Sarah Seven’s Spring 2011 Bridal Collection

Romantic. Simple. Feminine.  Those are the three words I would choose to describe the Spring 2011 Line of wedding dresses from Portland, Oregon designer, Sarah Seven.  Her website describes her bridal collection as “a rare glimpse into the perfected and intricate arrangement of blossoming ruffles, delicate fabrics, and flowing layers” – the perfect dress for any bride looking to capture raw romance on her wedding day.  Each dress is made to order and is oh so affordable, with the most expensive breaking the bank at $3200.  But don’t take my word for it…see for yourself…

{Photo Credits: sarahseven.com}

Sarah Seven is currently stocked at the following bridal shops:

FLAGSHIP STORE: Sarah Seven, 1402 SW Morrison St, Portland, OR 97205

CALIFORNIA: Bella Bridesmaid, 2250 Union St. Suite 1B, San Francisco, CA 94123. www.bellabridesmaid.com & Little White Dress, 1800 21st St., Bakersfield, CA 93301. www.littlewhitedressbridal.com

NEW YORK: Lovely Bride, 313 W 4th St, New York City, NY. www.lovelybride.com

TORONTO CANADA: White Toronto, 19 Hazelton Ave, Toronto, ON M5R 2E1. www.whitetoronto.com